Moving away from the cliche of "never try to understand women" and "a man will never understand women", the following quotes will help you in Understanding Women from the heart rather than your mind. When it comes to Women, they are very different from men in the way they think and how they have been created. In order to co-exist with harmony and love that they deserve, it is important for men to try and understand women. Hopefully these Quotes on Understanding women will serve as a start to the journey of Understanding your wife, mother and sisters.
Understanding Women Quotes
1. Any man who says he totally understands women is a fool.
Because they are un-understandable.
2. The object of philosophy is the logical clarification of thought.
3. “The most complete of the believers in faith, is the one with the best character among them. And the best of you are those who are best to your women.”
Grade : Hasan (Darussalam)
Reference : Jami` at-Tirmidhi 1162
4. I did not feel jealous of any of the wives of the Prophet (pbuh) as much as I did of Khadija though I did not see her, but the Prophet (pbuh) used to mention her very often, and when ever he slaughtered a sheep, he would cut its parts and send them to the women friends of Khadija. When I sometimes said to him,
"(You treat Khadija in such a way) as if there is no woman on earth except Khadija," he would say,
"Khadija was such-and-such, and from her I had children."
5. Women like attention and they like to be told clearly that they are loved. So don’t be stingy in expressing your love for your wife. If you become limited in expressing your love, you will create a barrier of harshness between you and her, and there will be a decrease in affection.
6. Ladies like from their husbands what their husbands like from them, i.e. kind words, good looks, clean clothes and a pleasant odour. Therefore, always remain in that state.
7. Indeed, the house is under the sovereignty of the woman. While she remains therein, she feels that she is sitting upon her throne, and that she is the chief of the house . Stay clear of destroying this kingdom of hers and do not ever attempt to dethrone her, otherwise you will be trying to snatch her sovereignty.
8. Surely woman has been created from a curved rib, and this is the secret of her beauty, and the secret of the attraction towards her. And this is no defect in her, because ‘the eyebrows look beautiful due to them being curved’. So if she errs, do not rebuke her in a manner in which there is no gentleness, attempting to straighten her; otherwise you will simply break her and her breaking, is her divorce. At the same time do not let her off upon that mistake, otherwise her crookedness will increase and she will become arrogant with her ego. Thereafter, she will never soften for you and she won’t listen to you, so stay in between the two.
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9. It is in the women’s nature to be ungrateful towards their husbands and to deny favours. If you were to be nice to her for her whole life but you grieved her once, she will say, “I have never seen any good from you”. So don’t let this attitude of her make you dislike her or to run away from her. If you dislike this feature of hers, you will be pleased with some other good habits within her, so create a balance.
10. Know that a woman is like a captive with you. Therefore, have mercy upon her.
11. Be respectful to women, for they are mothers of mankind.
12. "Treat women nicely, for a women is created from a rib, and the most curved portion of the rib is its upper portion, so, if you should try to straighten it, it will break, but if you leave it as it is, it will remain crooked. So treat women nicely."
[Sahih al-Bukhari 3331]
13. "Woman has been created from a rib and will in no way be straightened for you; so if you wish to benefit by her, benefit by her while crookedness remains in her. And if you attempt to straighten her, you will break her, and breaking her is divorcing her."
[Sahih Muslim 1467 b]
14. Surely there are times when a woman goes through some conditions of bodily weakness and fatigue of the mind. Such that Allah has relieved her of some of her compulsory worships during that period; Allah has totally pardoned her from praying, and has postponed the days of fasting for her within this break to a later date until she regains her health and becomes normal in her temperament once more. Thus, during these days, treat her in a godly manner. Just as Allah has relieved her of the duties, you should also lessen your demands and instructions from her during those days.
15. I love her mood swings. Especially, on those four days of every month. For that's when she's like a cute child.
16. Do you really get those really weird moods that you can't even explain what you're feeling it like everything is mixed all at once?
17. Mood swings make me really confused!
18. We’re never gonna understand women. They’re way too complex. You’ve got too many variables to consider. PMS, bad hair days, miscellaneous mood swings . . . there’s no way to tell what’s causing their attitude.
19. When a flower doesn't bloom, you fix the environment in which it grows, not the flower.
20. Women feel emotional turbulence between 5 to 7 days before they begin menstruating. Ignoring your wife’s feelings during PMS is unproductive and can cause further conflict between the couple.
21. If a woman is upset, hold her and tell her how beautiful she is.
If she starts to growl, retreat to a safe distance and throw chocolate at her.
22. Mood Swings can occur due to Hormonal conditions. Teens, pregnant women or women experiencing menopause may feel change in moods. Even medical conditions that affect your lungs, thyroid and cardiovascular, or central nervous system can also cause Mood Swings.
23. "A man falls in love through his eyes, a woman through her ears."
24. For every 50 crying episodes that women do, Men only average 10.
25. When we meet someone and begin to discover who they are or what makes them tick, what disappoints them, what pleases them - they are giving you information about their limits - whether or not they call it that or not. Their Values. And you are doing the same thing.
26. when a girl cries, it's not usually over one thing. It's built up anger and emotions that she's been holding for too long.
27. I’m simple to understand. Like quantum physics.
28. Due to the mental and emotional abuse that I've gotten from men in general all my life and my resulting hatred of the typical male ego, I have a more dominant attitude towards men and a more submissive attitude towards women.
29. Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood.
30. Don't try to understand women.
Women understand women, that is why they hate each other.
31. There are only three things women need in life: Food, water and compliments.
32. Cold as Ice. But in the right hands she melts.
33. Kindness begins with the understanding that we all struggle.
34. As soon as we start putting our thoughts into words and sentences everything gets distorted, language is just no damn good—I use it because I have to, but I don’t put any trust in it. We never understand each other.
35. It is better to understand little than to misunderstand a lot.
36. A beautiful relationship does not depend on how well we understand someone. But it depends on how well we avoid the misunderstanding.
37. Most misunderstandings in the world could be avoided if people would simply take the time to ask, “What else could this mean?”