1. That's the problem with being a boss is that when you are tough, they resent you, and when you are cool, they walk all over you.
2. If you wish to be kind, you need 3 thing:
1. Love yourself and be confident
2. Understand people from where they are coming from
3. Don't build resentment if someone does not listen to your advice. Stay kind and let it go.
3. Those who are free of resentful thoughts surely find peace.