1. I think my faith as a Muslim is very important.
One of the core values is that you are always trying to build consensus.
So when it comes to figuring out if something is permissible or not in Islam, it's usually a discussion, and people have to come to a consensus in order for something to be approved.
2. When your wife says "GO AHEAD" it is a dare, not a permission. Don't do it!
3. Liberty is the right of doing whatever the laws permit.