1. Above all, we must avoid the pitfalls of tribalism.
If we are divided among ourselves on tribal lines, we open our doors to foreign intervention and its potentially harmful consequences.
2. Surely woman has been created from a curved rib, and this is the secret of her beauty, and the secret of the attraction towards her. And this is no defect in her, because ‘the eyebrows look beautiful due to them being curved’. So if she errs, do not rebuke her in a manner in which there is no gentleness, attempting to straighten her; otherwise you will simply break her and her breaking, is her divorce. At the same time do not let her off upon that mistake, otherwise her crookedness will increase and she will become arrogant with her ego. Thereafter, she will never soften for you and she won’t listen to you, so stay in between the two.
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3. Your worst enemy is hiding within yourself, and that enemy is your nafs or false ego.
4. The path to the Truth is a labour of the heart, not of the head. Make your heart your primary guide! Not your mind. Meet, challenge and ultimately prevail over your nafs with your heart. Knowing your ego will lead you to the knowledge of God.
5. Do tasks which will humble you, which will break your ego.
6. Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less.
7. The ego is the veil between Humans and God.
8. May my Lord not make me enslaved to my ego and befriend the satan.
9. A: When I was young, I left a trail of broken hearts like a rockstar. I'm not proud of it.
B: You're kind of proud of it. You work it into a lot of conversations.
10. sometimes it's not ego. it's self-respect.
11. Flattery feeds directly into our ego and our self-identity. It makes us feel good about ourselves, so naturally, we are not immune to its charms. In fact, flattery affects behavior outside of our awareness. We have a tendency to respond more positively to situations, people, and products that make us feel good about ourselves.
12. People with money or high position expect everyone who need them to be a brown noser!
13. Tangible or material bullying: Using one’s formal power (i.e. title or position) or material leverage (i.e. financial, informational, or legal) as forms of intimidation, threat, harassment, and/or harm. In these scenarios, the bully uses his or her advantage in stature and/or resources to dominate and control the victim.
14. If I wanted to kill myself I would climb up to the top of your ego and jump to your IQ
15. English Translation:
It is exceptional to be liked in first glance
It is exceptional to scatter in your own soul
It is not exceptional to achieve success
It is exceptional to stay successful
nazar nazar meñ utarnā kamāl hotā hai
nafas nafas meñ bikharnā kamāl hotā hai
bulandiyoñ pe pahuñchnā koī kamāl nahīñ
bulandiyoñ pe Thaharnā kamāl hotā hai
16. If you want to know what a man’s like, take a good look at how he treats his inferiors, not his equals.
17. If you wish to be kind, you need 3 thing:
1. Love yourself and be confident
2. Understand people from where they are coming from
3. Don't build resentment if someone does not listen to your advice. Stay kind and let it go.
18. Real generosity is doing something nice for someone who will never find out.
19. The best way to handle a know it all is to take a curious subordinate role.
interact by asking “how” or “What” questions.
tap into their knowledge. it feeds the ego of the know it all, And potentially it allows them to change their position or point of view as they are explaining something to you.
avoid the “why“ questions as they may be perceived as a challenge.
remember to thank a know it all for their contribution.