1. Leave everything undefined, including yourself. Befriend uncertainty. Fall in love with mystery. Kneel at the altar of Not Knowing. Give your questions time to breathe. And the answers will find you.
2. Being at ease with not knowing is crucial for answers to come to you.
3. To admit your ignorance is freeing. To say, "I don't know" is to free yourself from having to come up with a bullshit answer.