Tangible or material bullying: Using one’s formal power (i.e ...

Home > Quotes > Tangible or material bullying: Using one’s formal power (i.e. title

Controlling Quotes

1. Tangible or material bullying: Using one’s formal power (i.e. title or position) or material leverage (i.e. financial, informational, or legal) as forms of intimidation, threat, harassment, and/or harm. In these scenarios, the bully uses his or her advantage in stature and/or resources to dominate and control the victim.

- Preston Ni


  whatsapp twitter ReadBeach Instagram    

Tags: Controlling   |    Power   |    Bully   |    Mind Games   |    Ego   |    Threatening   |    Powerful   |    Harmful   |    Taking Advantage   |    Attack   |    Victim   |    Intimidating   |    Dominance   |    Adult Bully   |   



Explore More Quotes

2. Emotional blackmail is one of the primary ways that one partner controls another partner. It’s done in such a way that the controlling partner manipulates the other person‘s emotions in an attempt to get their way.

- Dr. Connie Omari


  whatsapp twitter ReadBeach Instagram    

Tags: Controlling   |    Emotional Blackmail   |    Dismissive   |    Manipulation   |   

3. Emotional blackmail is the use of fear, obligation, and guilt to control another person.

- Susan Forward


  whatsapp twitter ReadBeach Instagram    

Tags: Fear   |    Controlling   |    Emotional Blackmail   |    Obligation   |    Guilt   |    Manipulation   |   

4. Perfectionists are not all negative, miserable, unhappy and over controlling individuals

- Dr. Asa Don Brown


  whatsapp twitter ReadBeach Instagram    

Tags: Perfectionism   |    Negativity   |    Unhappy   |    Controlling   |   



5. If you are in an abusive relationship, establishing boundaries may not be possible, as assertiveness in sharing your boundaries may not be even safe. And because the other person has a distinct agenda of controlling or even hurting you - you'll just get laughed at - if you try to voice your limits.You may need to consider leaving that relationship safely.

- Dr Margaret Rutherford


  whatsapp twitter ReadBeach Instagram    

Tags: Abuse   |    Relationship   |    Crossing the Line   |    Assertion   |    Controlling   |    Mind Control   |    Mind Games   |    Leave   |    Unsafe   |    Consideration   |   

6. Woman want a man who is in control, but not a man who is controlling.

There is a difference.


  whatsapp twitter ReadBeach Instagram    

Tags: Seductive   |    Control   |    Controlling   |    Word Meaning   |   



7. When a toxic person can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you. The misinformation will feel unfair, but stay above it, trusting that other people will eventually see the truth; just like you did.


  whatsapp twitter ReadBeach Instagram    

Tags: Toxic People   |    Adult Bully   |    Bully   |    Controlling   |    Mind Control   |    Trust   |    Abuse   |    Emotional Abuse   |    Glad You Are Gone   |   



8. A bully can be an aggressive juvenile, an intimidating boss or colleague, a controlling romantic partner, an unruly neighbor, a high-pressure sales/business representative, a condescending family member, a shaming social acquaintance, or those in a variety of other types of abusive relationships.

- Preston Ni


  whatsapp twitter ReadBeach Instagram    

Tags: Bully   |    Adult Bully   |    Passive Aggressive   |    Children   |    Raising Children   |    Controlling   |    Relationship   |    Abuse   |    Emotional Abuse   |    Neighbor   |    Sales   |    Work Life   |    Relatives   |   

9. Tangible or material bullying: Using one’s formal power (i.e. title or position) or material leverage (i.e. financial, informational, or legal) as forms of intimidation, threat, harassment, and/or harm. In these scenarios, the bully uses his or her advantage in stature and/or resources to dominate and control the victim.

- Preston Ni


  whatsapp twitter ReadBeach Instagram    

Tags: Controlling   |    Power   |    Bully   |    Mind Games   |    Ego   |    Threatening   |    Powerful   |    Harmful   |    Taking Advantage   |    Attack   |    Victim   |    Intimidating   |    Dominance   |    Adult Bully   |   

10. Although taking advantage is considered "passive aggressive", some consider it to be "covert aggressive".

Deceiving and manipulating us to get what they want, covert aggressors very actively try to control other people.


  whatsapp twitter ReadBeach Instagram    

Tags: Taking Advantage   |    Passive Aggressive   |    Deception   |    Manipulation   |    Controlling   |    Mind Games   |    Psychology   |    Consideration   |   



11. Taking Advantage Tactic #6

Guilt. Using your conscience and desire to be a good person to control and manipulate you.


  whatsapp twitter ReadBeach Instagram    

Tags: Taking Advantage   |    Guilt   |    Conscience   |    Desires   |    Controlling   |    Manipulation   |    Mind Games   |    Psychology   |    Help   |   

12. If you think you're alone, you'll become weak and controlled by people.

You're not alone. Call out everyone who loved you, everyone who loves you now, and everyone who will love you in the future.


  whatsapp twitter ReadBeach Instagram    

Tags: Korean Drama   |    Controlling   |    Mind Control   |   

13. Your narcissistic abuser withholds information in a conversation, and replaces it with false information.

That’s Gaslighting.


  whatsapp twitter ReadBeach Instagram    

Tags: Gaslighting   |    Liar   |    Emotional Abuse   |    Controlling   |    Mind Control   |    Narcissism   |   



14. You don’t have to control your thoughts; you just have to stop letting them control you.

- Dan Millman


  whatsapp twitter ReadBeach Instagram    

Tags: Anxious   |    Health Anxiety   |    Mind Control   |    Thoughts   |    Negativity   |    Controlling   |    Control   |    Mental Health   |   

15. We measure our value or worth by what people think of us. So we are always helping, putting others first, being the nice person. We are basically trying to CONTROL what other people think and feel. And yet, this is something that we really CANT CONTROL.


  whatsapp twitter ReadBeach Instagram    

Tags: Pleasing   |    Controlling   |    Mind Control   |    Being Nice   |    Accept   |    Self Worth   |    Validation   |   

16. You cannot always control what goes on outside.

But you can always control what goes on inside.


  whatsapp twitter ReadBeach Instagram    

Tags: Yoga   |    Control   |    Controlling   |    Mind Control   |    Health Anxiety   |    Anxious   |   



17. How to manage anger?

Write out when do you get angry?

What are the triggers?

What is your typical response do those triggers?

Consider these questions to assess whether your anger is harmful or helpful.

do you yell or swear? do you lash out or hit someone? do you manipulate or try to control others? do you mumble under your breath? do you think others are not as good as you are?

if you answered these questions with “yes” or a “maybe”, then you have an anger problem and the next step is to admit that you have a problem with the anger. once you admit that you have a problem you are on the path to change.


  whatsapp twitter ReadBeach Instagram    

Tags: Anger   |    Harmful   |    Self Help   |    Manipulation   |    Trigger   |    Swearing   |    Screaming   |    Controlling   |    Admitting   |    Problems   |    Realization   |   

18. He who angers you, conquers you.


  whatsapp twitter ReadBeach Instagram    

Tags: Anger   |    Emotions   |    Controlling   |    Mind Games   |    Toxic People   |    Irritated   |